I have a good friend on Yahoo 360. Wolfio is musician with a heart and a brain and a soul that reaches around forever. He rants and raves, but he also writes some of the funniest stuff I’ve seen here.
His life hasn’t been particularly great lately. He’s going through a divorce from a woman who adores head games. She even had her boyfriend call him up and invite him to Thanksgiving dinner with them.
His oldest son, from his first marriage, recently moved home and was seriously depressed. The young man had suffered some blows that left him despondent almost beyond life. Wolfio despaired that this adult child would ever even get out of bed, much less get a job and lead a normal life.
Then, as parents are sometimes able to do, he reached within himself and found something to inspire that young man who had no direction in life, that young man who felt he had lost all hope. What Wolfio said to his son was powerful. I think what he said bears repeating.
I killed a guy.
It was not planned. Most killings are like that.
It was long ago, before I knew who I was or wanted in life.
Fern. The guy’s name was John Fern. You don’t forget a guy you kill. Most killings are like that.
I never spoke to him. I never met him until I killed him. It was his choice, the only one he may have believed he ever made, that he really wanted. Decisions are like that.
I didn’t want to kill him. I would rather have gone on, never running into him at all, but…. That’s how I killed him. John. By running into him. Over him, really. Crushing him. Huge trucks do that.
I was at work, on the job on a four lane highway, of course, in the fast lane. Driving is like that.
I saw him on the overpass. He disappeared behind the sign showing the next exit. I was thinking of something – I don’t remember now – it was not important I’m sure. It’s hard to remember what you were before you became something else. Hindsight is like that.
It did seem strange. Why would someone put a leg over an overpass railing? But, what are the chances? He didn’t drop something. “He’s right there, dead center. Why, if he was to…”
That part I remember: how I forced my vision not to look directly into his eyes just before he hit the windshield, rolled down and under the truck. I would imagine he was in a lot of pain. I dragged him maybe fifty yards. Somewhere in there he died. I wondered if he may have reconsidered while under there. Stupidity is like that.
After I pulled over I got out, walked to the back of the truck, lit a cigarette and sat on the bumper. His body was still. I could only make out the shape. I found his sweater had been pulled off. It was tangled on the drive axle under the truck. I wanted a drink. I asked the state trooper, “Look no cameras, I don’t want to be on the news…” Yep, I was an asshole, even then. Karma is like that.
I’ve wanted to off myself millions of times since then. It’s clear I will not.
I told that story to my son while he was here, staying with me during this whole wife/whore fiasco. His mother died in a car crash 3 years ago. He was in the backseat. T-boned in a fucking Neon. It took her head clean off. The kid wanted to end it. He was not kidding. Reality is like that.
I couldn’t fucking believe it. I was crying, not knowing what to say, but if I didn’t say something he was going to do it. I can’t kill again by accident.
And then there was John. John Fern. I never knew what I thought about it all before this moment. I never spent much time on it. Then I knew.
After the story I told him, “John Fern was his own man. I never knew him but he chose to do the one thing he could do without anyone’s OK. He offed himself. They told me he had been in years of therapy and he just gave up.
“Would you be able to just give up like that, and still have hope to see your mother again knowing the one thing she would have wanted for you was to grow up the be a fine young man? She would be proud of all the sacrifices she made for you. It will be all worth it, even her passing, if the most important work in her life was successful: raising a good son.
“John Fern did what he had to do. You have to live to the betterment of your mother’s memory, and if that fails then you’ll also be man enough to go like John.”
Two weeks later he had his old job back, got an apartment, and told me – me! – “Thanks, Dad.” Luck is like that.
Thank you, John. I’m sorry I killed you, but you saved my son, and at least I forgive you.
Dedicated to John Wolfio182
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